This is a short response given by H G Mahatma Prabhu to a devotee who wanted to know how to deal and balance the wanted and unwanted in one’s life.
The truth always lies somewhere in the middle. When you find yourself being too one sided, understand that you may be blocking out a part of the world that perhaps you don’t want to acknowledge, what to speak of dealing with. This may be because a part of yourself finds it difficult to change or to accommodate other realities, so it is easier to acknowledge that the other side is irrelevant, wrong, bad – or even stupid.
This is just the starting point, let me know if this helps.
Hare Krsna, Mahatma Das