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  1. Mona
    June 30, 2015 @ 7:01 pm

    Hare Krishna !
    Is there a way to turn around situation in marriage if out of emotions a woman has always tried to make husband feel gud , and now the husband starts getting stubborn on getting his way only and always argues and blames wife whenever she raises a concern out of situation?
    How should such relationship be handled ?

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    • Mahatma Das
      July 1, 2015 @ 6:07 pm

      If he is blaming it means he is hurting inside, as blame is used as a means to easy the pain of something upsetting inside. Maybe you can find out what that is.

      Additionally, if he doesn’t want to improve but thinks you are the one at fault, then what might change him is to realize the relationship may not last if he doesn’t change, or at least if you stay together you will no longer have a relationship.

      The main thing is to somehow get him motivated to improve. It is strange, but many don’t feel that having a good marriage is related to being Krsna conscious, but it is. If we fail in our asrama, it is a failure to some degree in our Krsna consciousness. He needs to understand that no relationship fails because of one person. Two people are involved and he is also partly responsible.

      Perhaps someone he respects can talk to him.

      These are general points since I don’t know the details and neither do I know him personally.

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